
Are you Afraid to be Rich? Confronting Your Fear of
Financial Success
One
of the basics of acquiring wealth is to focus your mind
upon wealth, ignoring any suggestions of scarcity, lack
or limitation. This helps "set the stage"
for attracting abundance and prosperity into your life.
It also keeps you from wasting time and energy focusing
on nonsense that has nothing to do with your actual
goal -- to become a truly wealthy person. You know what
they say, you have to keep your eyes on the prize.
Next
up, you have to make sure you have a good attitude about
money to begin with. A lot of people say they desire
to be wealthy, but when you get right down to it, they
have a negative attitude about money. Many of these
people will even criticize others who have great wealth,
and this is always a big mistake. You're practically
telling your subconscious that money is "the root
of all evil," and that having money makes you a
bad person. With that attitude, do you really think
your unconscious is going to help you out in attracting
wealth and prosperity into your life?
And
by the way, if you're wondering why the unconscious
is important in attracting wealth, it's really pretty
simple: you need to be "integrated" in your
pursuit of wealth. In other words, your entire mind
should be working in harmony toward your goal. You don't
need subconscious hangups sabotaging you along the way
(something that happens to a great many people).
Here's
a really simple rule of thumb: if you want to be a rich
person, always think positive thoughts about rich people.
If you criticize or put down the wealthy, you're not
guiding your mind in the direction of being wealthy.
You're actually telling it to go the other way -- toward
scarcity and lack.
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Here's
another important point: most of us have been brainwashed
into believing that scarcity is simply "the way
things are." You've surely heard those old sayings
such as "Money doesn't grow on trees," etc.
This mindset will lead to limiting beliefs about money
that will make it a constant struggle for you to live
a naturally abundant life. If the world and its cultures
have convinced you into believing that it's difficult
to be wealthy, you need to "see through" this
assumption right away. The fact is, it's not difficult
at all. It's only difficult for those who lack the imagination
to question this ridiculous belief. And unfortunately,
as long as they continue falling for this false paradigm,
the wealth and abundance they desire will continue to
elude them.
Likewise,
it is important to recognize that wealth and abundance
follow natural patterns. If you learn and follow the
patterns, you will become a wealthy person. If you don't,
you probably won't. Simple as that.
You
could compare the patterns to the flow of a river, and
there is always a give and take. In order to receive,
you have also got to give. So trying to be tight-fisted
or stingy as a strategy to get wealthy is usually a
fool's errand. You can't play the game with sweaty palms,
so you need to release the fear, and be willing to take
some chances. This means you also have to take a chance
on other people sometimes. No man or woman is an island.
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Finally,
your biggest opponent in creating wealth will always
be the same: fear. It could be fear of disappointment,
fear of failure, fear of success, fear that money might
change you, fear of taking risks, or fear of reaching
out to others who can help you along the way. They all
come down to the same thing, and you're either going
to let fear control your life, or you're going to steamroll
over it and achieve the prosperity you desire. Don't
kid yourself, those are the only two options available
to you. Steamroll or cave. I won't tell you it will
always be easy to work through the fear, but you can
do it.
Once
you begin thinking positively about wealth and ignoring
all suggestions of scarcity, you will be on the right
track. Focusing on abundance has a way of showing you
new possibilities and opportunities that you never realized
existed before. Once you start noticing them, then your
biggest challenge is to break through the fear barrier
and act on them. As much as your thinking, beliefs and
attitude are essential in creating wealth, you also
cannot overlook the value of simply taking action.
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